When there is a death, it is possible it comes in one of many ways. Often at the hand of others, or self inflicted, or by medical reasons, or by chance. 
IMO the death of a loved one that is by Suicide ---snip--
U.S. Suicide Statistics (2001)
Emergency Room Visits
- Emergency room visits for self-inflicted injury: 400,000
All suicides
- Number of deaths: 30,622
- Deaths per 100,000 population: 10.8
Firearm Suicides
- Number of deaths: 16,869
- Deaths per 100,000 population: 5.9
Suffocation Suicides
- Number of deaths: 6,198
- Deaths per 100,000 population: 2.2
Poisoning Suicides
- Number of deaths: 5,191
- Deaths per 100,000 population: 1.8 [/ end copy/] more information at site, some very interesting and surprising stats
http://www.suicide.org/suicide-statistics.html [1]
Rate Per Number Per Day 100,000 % of Deaths Elderly (65+ yrs.) .5,393..........14.8.........15.3..........0.3 Young (15-24 yrs.)..3,971..........10.9..........9.9.........12.3
has to be, in my mind, the death of a loved one who is a son or daughter that has taken their own life, for whatever reason, that death would be the hardest for the rest of the family and loved ones to cope with.
I found a man who lost his teenage son, and he started a group, wrote a book and travels to inform others. Mighty nice man thru emails--copy--
[Mark Canfora Ministries was established] ...[ The ministry has evolved into several outreach ministries listed at: www.IveGotHope.com [2] ]
and his website also is
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I am no expert on suicide, but Mark is. He is also a speaker, if you know of any group that might need him, he has also written a book, and the first three chapters are online, (link above) which I found very well written and heartbreaking.
No easy answers here, just thought this was well worth sharing and some might wish to look at it. Betty